Half a decade ago, I walked away from my marriage with my children in tow. Half a decade ago, God led us out of our Egypt. I can’t believe it’s been 5 years. It all seems like it happened yesterday. The road has been very rocky. It has not been easy but nonetheless, I am thankful that unlike Lot’s wife in the bible, I did not look back and become transfixed. Baby steps has gotten me this far. I will continue to take those baby steps. I don’t always feel like I am making progress but my relatives, friends and people around me tell me that I am.
Not that I make a conscious effort to remember this date but today i woke up and I was not sure how to feel. What I knew for sure was that it was now time to fully take off the “proverbial” mourning clothes, stop asking why, and fully march forward. So I decided instead of feeling sad on this day, i would celebrate our freedom from oppression and abuse. I also decided that from this point on, I will view that date or anniversary as Independence Day! While I don’t know what the future holds, I am going to keep hope alive and believe that the future will be good, in spite of the many hopes and dreams unfulfilled.
Of course, my wish is for another loving long term partner someday. If it happens great, if it doesn’t i am still okay and I will still be me. I was whole and complete before a man walked into my life and I am still whole and complete now. So for now, I will remain happily single, loving my singleness, getting to Know me again, enjoying my children and time with family and friends and just carrying on living….i ask everyone who reads this to please raise a glass in a toast along with me and for me, while I say cheers 🥂Half a decade and like the bird in the picture above, it’s time for lift off…